If You Suspect Your Child Has a Mood Disorder, Do This
If you suspect that your child is suffering from anxiety or depression, you may want to chart his or her daily ups and downs.
What is symptom charting?
Symptom charting is nothing more than a daily system of tracking symptoms and behaviors.
It can be as low-tech as simply noting behaviors on a calendar or as advanced as filling out a computerized diary. Charts can be kept by patients, parents, spouses, children, teachers, doctors, therapists or anyone in close contact with the person. Professionals use charts to document to keep a solid record of a patient’s history. Parents use them for the same reasons, but in non-clinical settings. Patients use them for these reasons and to develop insight and awareness of the correlation between their symptoms and behaviors.
Who should chart?
People familiar with depression or bipolar disorder are probably also familiar with the term “mood chart”. It is understood that charting mood and other factors leads to a better understanding of one’s moods and what affects them. ADHD parents often use behavior charts and point systems which have been shown helpful in reducing unwanted ADHD symptoms and the behaviors that result. Charting frequency of impulsivity, distractibility, lack of attention, energy level and depression can aid parents of ADHD children in making discipline and other parenting decisions. Tracking obsessions and the behaviors that result can help those with OCD become more cognitively aware of the frequency and severity of their symptoms. Charting social difficulties (and successes, too) of children with autism and NVLD can aid parents and teachers in developing strategies to teach the child more appropriate communication skills. In fact, there is probably no chronic brain condition that could not benefit from daily monitoring or charting.
What can be learned from charting?
Relationship between symptoms and behavior:
If, when charting a child with bipolar, you note that every time the child gets less than four hours of sleep per night (a manic symptom) he is very energized the next day and demands that you cook him a four-course meal for breakfast… in bed (a behavior of mania), you have established a direct relationship between a symptom of the illness and a behavior.
Some are not quite as obvious as this example, however. Sometimes symptoms lead to behaviors that parents might not easily pick up on as related. If the child is speaking rapidly but seems otherwise fine then suddenly becomes physically aggressive with a sibling, you may miss this manic manifestation unless it was charted.
After many weeks of charting, the parent begins to note relationships, and this awareness can help the parent decide whether or not the child with rapid speech should be allowed to play unsupervised with a younger sibling.
Relationship between symptoms or behaviors and medication:
Keeping track of any medications given while charting behaviors is crucial to determine the effectiveness or any adverse effects of the medication. For instance, careful charting may reveal that after every time a medication is administered, the child becomes anxious and weepy. If medication was not charted alongside the behavior, the correlation may be missed and the anxiety mislabeled as a separate diagnosis, resulting in additional, unnecessary medication.
Relationship between environmental factors and behavior:
Environmental factors such as diet, social situations, death or illness in the family, moving to a new home or seasonal change can bring stressors into the child’s life, affecting his disorder its behavioral manifestation. Pubertal and pre-pubertal girls should also track menses, which can affect energy, mood and overall functioning.
Making parenting decisions based on charting:
Parents who have previously punished or reprimanded a child for aggression may discover that the child’s aggression is directly related to a symptom of their disorder such as misunderstanding facial expressions. The parent may then decide to prepare the child for social situations by teaching the child to recognize and identify facial expressions. They may monitor social interactions more closely to prevent the aggression or misunderstanding. They may even decide to pursue therapy to address the symptom.
Parents who do discipline with time-outs, grounding or other means can chart effectiveness of these consequences by noting if the unwanted behavior returns (and if it does, the frequency and severity of the behavior).
Making treatment decisions based on charting:
Teachers, doctors and therapists may change the course of treatment or the way they address the issues of the child with a brain disorder based on charts – kept either by the professional or the parent. Teachers may not notice antecedents to behaviors unless charting closely, affecting decisions about discipline. Doctors may not get a clear picture of family life and symptomatic behaviors unless a parent-kept chart reveals a wide range of symptoms. Simply asking a parent to describe how things have been is sure to return as insufficient an answer.
Developing self-awareness and ability to control symptoms:
Even small children can be taught to evaluate how they are feeling. Older children may develop skills to identify specific symptoms and manifestations of those symptoms. Charting allows the child to discover his own “brand” of disorder, and frequently he becomes more open to insightful discussions. He learns more quickly to be aware of his symptoms, which in turn leads to better control of his behaviors.
How do I choose a chart?
Besides just picking one and trying it out, there are some questions you can ask to determine if a chart is right for you.
- How consistent am I likely to be in charting? – The answer will determine the frequency required in the chart and the length of the chart. If you are not a very consistent person, a chart that requires hourly data collection and has ten areas of data to collect may not be the right choice for you.
- What data is most important to me? – At the very minimum, you’ll want to chart unwanted behaviors and medication. But if your child is sensitive to sugar or caffeine, charting diet will be important. If your child regularly has sleep difficulties or wets the bed, this would be important to you. Make a list of the most important areas of data to your child.
- Do I prefer sitting at the computer to chart or do I need a more portable system?
- Am I likely to get confused or bored if the chart is too long, does not have lines or graphs or lacks eye-pleasing graphics?
- Do I want to keep the chart or have my child keep the chart (or both)?
Even if you choose a chart with these questions in mind, you will undoubtedly find ways to personalize the chart after using it for a while. You might even discover that the issues you thought were important really aren’t. Don’t fret. There are many other charts to choose from, and it is quite easy to alter one or create your own.
Where can I find a chart that suits my child’s individual needs?
There are many charts available through hospitals, schools and even on the internet. But finding one that suits your child’s individual needs takes some searching or even a little creative altering.
Charts developed commercially can be used effectively, but the ones designed by parents often include more appropriate tracking data. If you do not find one that you think is perfect, use a word processing program or spreadsheet/database program to take the best aspects of charts you do like to create your own.